STYLE SOLUTIONS for
the "RETURNAHOLICS"
Redefining the midlife closet full of pieces and not enough outfits.
Not just guidelines, or how you *should* look, but focusing on looking current and put together, every day, without giving up comfort.
You try on 12 pairs of jeans and walk out empty-handed.
You see an outfit on someone and cannot figure out why it looks completely different on you. You have a closet full of pieces and not too many outfits.
Nobody taught you how to read what you are looking at.
That is the whole thing. That is it.
And it's completely learnable. I promise.
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Fab Totoli
I've been the friend people call before
they go shopping since I was about fifteen.
Hi there, I'm Fab Totoli
Soon to be a M.O.B.
Late Insta Adopter
MILANO NATIVE
Allergic to Clichè
Reluctant to fit In
My mom told me early on that being charming is more important than being pretty. I think about that a lot when I teach style, because what I actually teach is confidence, and confidence comes from knowing, not guessing.
I am a style educador. I do not do body shapes. I do not do trends. I read clothing like architecture, lines, proportion, where the eye goes, what it does when it gets there. I can walk into any store and tell you in seconds whether something is going to work for you or work against you, and exactly why.
I went viral with my first reel, which I did not see coming.
And now I'm here, with my 25yrs + experience in the fashion industry teaching midlife women to see what I see, because I heard too many times, why nobody teaches this instead of just telling what to buy!!!
AS SEEN STYLING IN:
Here is what I teach instead:
Most style advice gives you rules.
Best jeans for pear shapes. What to wear if you are petite. Capsule wardrobe formulas. You follow the rules and still feel off, because rules skip the part where you actually understand why something works.
Direction
Every line in a garment is either pulling the eye up or pulling it sideways. That one thing changes everything about how a piece reads on a body.
Interruption
Every seam, hem, and waistband is a place where the eye stops. Where it stops is where the attention lands. Knowing this means you stop buying things that park attention exactly where you do not want it.
Visual Weight
Every outfit has a heavy side and a light side. When they are off balance, you feel it, even if you cannot name it.
Proportion
The relationship between the pieces matters more than any individual piece. One detail changes the whole read.
Pick the thing that is driving you most right now.
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Choosing the "it" Pair of Jeans
You know the feeling. You try on jeans in the store and think they look fine. You get home and something is just wrong. You are not losing your mind and the lighting is not the problem.
It is the pocket placement, the rise, the whiskering, the wash, 23 specific details that make or break a pair of jeans on your body. Once you know what to check, you will never spend 20 min. in a fitting room guessing again.
13 Pieces 138 Outfits
Many pieces and no outfits?
This guide shows you the 13 pieces that actually connect and maps out 138 real outfit combinations from what most women already have. It ends the nothing to wear loop without buying a single new thing.
The effects of clothes on You
Learn the illusion and eyes tricks clothes play when you put them in your body.
Be ready to
be surprised
Your glasses are on your face every single day. They are either doing something really good for your proportions or working against them, and most women have no idea which.
Frame width relative to face width. Temple placement.
Lens shape. This guide covers all of it.
It is the thing I wish every woman had before she spent hundreds on prescription glasses.
If your reflection changed, and your
If your reflection changed, and your
wardrobe didn’t get the memo. You’re
wardrobe didn’t get the memo. You’re
not lost. Your clothes just got stuck in
not lost. Your clothes just got stuck in
a chapter you’ve already outgrown.
a chapter you’ve already outgrown.
What happens
When YOu get it!
Trust earned with your knowledge and your dedication. You're a mentor for me in this moment in midlife.
Cynthia De C
You honor each woman’s unique style instead of making us all look the same. That says everything. For the first time I feel like I actually understand my own clothes.
Andrea L.D.
It makes you look at outfits in a more focused, smart, and positive way, and it’s incredibly helpful for self-acceptance.
Fleur
Not ready to buy anything yet? That is fine.
I made a free guide, 3 jeans details. It takes about 3 minutes to read and you will use it the next time you are in a fitting room.
No fluff. Just the thing.
